Divorced Dads; Have A Message For Us?

 

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Men and dads have a very tough time post-divorce and the loneliness is a killer to many. The suicide rate is extremely high and the loneliness rate is also extremely high with men post-divorce. So, ladies, this is a message to you: if you want the father of your children to be okay, If you want him to be the best version of himself and be able to raise your children in the best way possible, my best suggestion to you is that, dads come and tell us what you need. If you have a message that you want us to hear- if you want us to know something in particular, if you want us to understand you better, you need to come out and tell us.

You need to come and tell us what you want us to know- what you’re feeling and what you’re thinking. The only way that we, as mothers, can be sensitive to you and empathetic to you and to what you’re going through is if we fully understand from a real, raw and authentic point of view, what it is that you’re going through and what it is that you need.

And many of you dads shy away from sharing your thoughts and your feelings- probably because you don’t want to be judged or you don’t want anyone to know you’re thinking that way or you’re concerned that you’re going to be looked at differently. I don’t know. But the only way that I can tell you that dads, you’re going to have an easier time post-divorce is that if us, mothers, understand what you’re thinking.

Because I know you guys understand what we’re thinking, right? Because we’re so communicative and we share everything that’s in our hearts and we outpour everything so we kind of give you all the clues and the signs and tell you the raw, honest truth, whether you like it or you don’t like it, we do tell it.

But we do need to hear your voices and I’ll tell you that in the Divorce by Rose Community App, there’s been a couple of men who’ve come out and… they’re anonymous, right?… so they’re sharing things about themselves, about why they did things, about why they made those decisions. And I can tell you that so many women were blown away saying… Wow. Wow… I had no idea that this is what men think… no idea this is something that goes through their minds and it makes it easier to find amicable solutions when the two parties start to understand each other. The whole point of divorce is that you’ll need to learn to co-create your life right?

So you’re on your side, she’s on her side and you have to learn to co-create and when you co-create, you’ll be able to co-mmunicate, you’ll be able to co-parent you’ll be able to co-exist. But the only way you can do that is if you understand one another. So, I, welcome all you dads to Divorce by Rose Community App, which is created specifically to allow you to remain anonymous- when you register, just use a fake name where it asks for you for your first name and your last name. Just be anything you could be: Tom cruise, Bubbly Snowflake, you could be Pamela Anderson. You could be whoever you want to be. When you come into the app, you’ll have access to chat and engage with parents from around the world who are probably thinking and doing the same things as you right now- it’s a really amazing support system. And you’ll also be surrounded by our coaches, experts and professionals who are all here to plant new seeds of thought, teach you new things, to share their wisdom, their strategies and tools, the things that they’ve learned, things that they’ve done, things that they’ve worked on and what’s not worked because at the end of the day, our role is to learn from our experiences, learn from our divorce and then pay it forward and pass it on to all of you.

Inspired by Ravit Rose: Divorce Coach & Mentor | Author of “Unwanted Nasty Divorces” | Founder of the Divorce by Rose Community App designed for parents who are either contemplating divorce or newly separated and wondering “Should I stay married or should I get divorced”?

We are not pro marriage. We are not pro divorce either. We are a select group of coaches, experts & professionals from various industries offering you realistic strategies and solutions and support to help you find the LOGICAL answers that YOU need to help you decide whether you should stay married or get divorced. And then, regardless of your decision, we provide you with your next steps.

Join us ANONYMOUSLY in this powerful social networking app- simply use a fake & fun name and take advantage of all the 24/7 access to support.